I have been racking my brain on a topic to give this piece but its been unsuccessful so far, it has given me headache more than the post itself. So please do me the honors of giving it a topic for me. Thanks. #winks.
I really find it difficult in calling my married male friends when its late, sometimes from 8pm upwards. I kinda respect the wife, and its not like I have anything to hide (I'm not dating the men), but I just respect the marriage.
One day, I had something really urgent to discuss with a friend of mine, gosh, it was just few minutes past 8pm. I needed to pass an urgent information across cos the following day would be too late. So I braced up and made the call, I was shocked out of my wits when the wife picked the call. I was stunned, couldn't talk properly cos I was stammering, I managed to introduce myself and then asked after the husband, she affirmed his absence and I thanked her, then cut the call. His wife doesn't know me personally and I prayed she doesn't think I'm a mistress (with the way I talked, me sef I go suspect myself).
In another occasion, I called a colleague who was mobile that stays around my area, to ask him if I could follow him to work, the wife picked and before I knew it, my heart started beating so loudly. I just blabbed something and then cut the call.
When my colleague came to work (I didn't go with him again), he asked me why I cut the call on his wife and it almost led to a little quarrel that morning. You see, when the wife picked, and amidst my racing heart, I managed to hear the wife say something about him not being around and me saying a silent "Ok ma, thank you ma". I apologized about it though, while he laughed it off.
Hey, I'm not guilty of anything and I have nothing to hide, but I don't know why I feel this way. You see, I can never be a mistress, aside the fear of God, the fear of the wife is the beginning of wisdom. Lol. I'm also against that ish. My conscience is as clear as a clean water so it just baffles me atimes.
Does anyone feel this same way too? Lol. Let's talk.
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