Pam, well done with your work, May God give you lots of wisdom. Amen.
Now, to my story. I've been dating this broke ass guy for a year plus now. What haven't I done for him?
Anyway, sometime last year I noticed that he had two 2go accounts where he pretends to be a girl and then do all these lesbian stuff with the lesbian girls. I got furious, then he begged and asked me to change the passwords to something he doesn't know. I did. Somehow, he opened another account too, gosh! I was really pissed. Is this guy possessed or something? Checked his phone the other day and I saw lesbian porn. Who does that?
Now, yesterday night, I slept at his place, and abruptly woke up, and who was he calling? A lesbian. I can remember asking him about this girl before, he said the person was a guy, and then later a girl in his hometown. I angrily collected the phone from him and called the girl, and from our conversation, I found out yesterday that this same girl is a lesbian, and the thing is, the girl doesn't even know that she's talking to a guy, they all don't know. He has this tiny voice which he uses to deceive them.
I've always fought him about night calls, how can you be sleeping on the same bed with your babe and then sneak out to go call another girl. Please who does that? This is the guy that wants to settle down with me, is this what I'll see when I eventually marry him? When I caught him last night, he tried hiding the phone and then started lying that he wasn't making a call, but why?
As at this moment that I'm typing this, I don't know how I'm feeling. He's been begging me since and has confessed that he wants to sever his ties with her that she's really a lesbian, but I don't think I'll forgive him this time. Ok, I may forgive him, but I don't think that I'll be dating him anymore. I'm an independent lady and can't take this shit anymore. Yes, he's a sweet guy and has this really sweet family, that's why I've even stayed this long, but I don't think I can bear this anymore. Thanks Pam, I hope you publish this. Just want to hear what blog members have to say about this.
******Biko, let me just read comments on this one. I'll really need your comments, She does too. Thanks******